A few years ago when I was 24, I met up with another redditor that was local to me, and we had planned out different scenarios for roleplay. I remember posting about wanting to have fun with another bi guy that was over 35. We met and on a whim he decided to take me to a sex shop and we spent about a good hour or so in there looking at different kind of toys. We did end up getting a harness and an 8 inch girthy dildo we talked about using it on him. The funny thing was I had a friend from high school who worked at said sex shop. As soon as we left the shop he drove around and found some place to park and asked if we should stroke our "cocks" together. Things went a little further and we stopped after he choked. We had planned to meet up again but never saw each other again, and I still have it to this day... but have decided I am very much a sub lol what business do I have trying to wear a strap. I did talk with my man about adding another partner and letting them use it on me.