I've spent a good chunk of my life in major cities that attract Type A personalities. In some of those cities, it wasn't unusual to find out that the woman I was on a date with had an Ivy League degree and an unusually competitive job.

These are the kinds of people whose accomplishments make you question everything you've done with your life. It's hard not to feel intimidated by how intellectual, ambitious, and successful these types of women are.

But the way I deal with feeling intimidated by women who are smarter and more successful than I am, is by utterly devouring and dominating them when we get to the bedroom.

I'm not sadistic at all--I'm a pleasure dom. The goal is to make her cum over and over again until she's a wet, sloppy, incoherent mess.

She might seem poised, intellectual, and well-dressed when we're out together.

But when my face is buried between her legs, and I've been edging her for an hour, and she's begging me to let her cum, none of that matters. Because I'm the one who decides when she gets what she desperately wants in that moment.

I'll call her a good girl for being so patient. For letting me taste her pussy as long as I need to before I let her cum. For sucking my cock and licking my balls exactly the way I told her to. For letting me spank her and play with her ass. For riding me until I explode in her perfect little pussy.

Once she's earned it, I'll stop edging her and make her cum over and over again.

A couple of years ago, I was up at 4AM with someone who swore she didn't have another orgasm left in her. She was exhausted and needed to get to sleep.

I told her I knew she was tired, but she needed to cum one more time. All she had to do was close her eyes, relax, and let me taste her again.

The next morning, she sent me a text thanking me for taking such good care of her. She said she usually wakes up with some muscle soreness, but that morning she felt limber.

In my experience, successful and powerful women are the most eager to be dominated. By far.