I've always been quite confident with women and I've never had any great difficulty talking to women or even seducing them. However, I started dating when I was 17 and was in a relationship for a long time, being 100 per cent faithful. When I was 23, I moved to a new city and started living a more dynamic life. I went out at night, but I never did anything ‘wrong’. Flirting and little else. One night, in one of the city's best-known discos, a beautiful, well-preserved, eloquent and very attractive 58-year-old woman approached me. We were in an outdoor area, but still in the club, and she began by complimenting my smile and my eyes and asked if I was in a relationship. I said yes and my friends left, thinking I was going to do something. We talked for a while. She was intelligent and had a great sense of humour. Out of the blue, and in the middle of a silly conversation, she said that she would pay good money to watch videos of me. I smiled, a little embarrassed and not knowing what to say, and she said straight out that she wanted to be my sugar mummy. Her husband was rich and she said she'd be happy with nudes and, if I wanted, sex once a month. At the time, as I was dating and had a very romantic outlook, I turned her down and I think about it to this day. I got a giant kink from having a sugar mummy and it's still on my mind to this day. I never saw the woman again, even though I went to that club many times. I can't get over it, and I'm 26...