So here’s the thing—I know a lot of my friends don’t really enjoy it, but honestly? I love going down on my partner. I feel like it’s something I’m proud to be good at, and there’s this satisfaction that comes with it that’s hard to explain. There’s just something about being able to completely focus on him, knowing I’m the one bringing him to that level of pleasure.

It’s this powerful mix of feeling in control yet also being so open and giving in the moment. Plus, seeing his reactions, watching him lose control—it’s like this little secret strength I have, and I love every second of it. I know a lot of people see it as just a “favor” or something to get through, but for me, it’s honestly one of the best parts.