I never imagined I would be in such a situation, even in my wildest dreams.

I am a 48-year-old nurse. I have been in a relationship with a young man for more than a year. I work in emergency department, and we have disruptive/drunk patients at times, particularly during night shifts. I have seen one particular security guard on multiple occasions dealing with such patients. I was always amazed how he can manhandle them with ease. We have become close to each other, and one thing led to another, I found myself in a full-blown affair with him. At that time, I was still married to my ex-husband. He is 30 years old.

One day, my son's fiancée saw me with him, and she confronted me. She is very close to me, I told her everything. She asked to be introduced to him otherwise she was going to tell everyone. I ended up introduce her to him, and they have been seeing each other since then. I still see him as well separately. BTW, my son is 25 years old. The thing is he wants my son's fiancée to stay with my son and get married to him, which is completely different to what he asked me to do with my husband. I think that he likes the idea that my son is completely unaware of what is happening. He wants her to divorce him after they get married, after he does stuff to humiliate and degrade my unaware son.

This sexual relationship with that man can go on for years, and I can’t afford to lose him. I know the heartbreak that is waiting for my son, when the love of his life divorces him. However, he may never know why his soon to be wife divorced him, just like his father never knew. I could keep my man, and at the same time my relationship with my son. I know there is a small chance that he finds out, but I will do my best for that not to happen.