Until very recently the attention from older men would make me uncomfortable and awkward but something shifted in my preferences lately and i find myself returning stares, exchanging smiles and enjoying the flirtatious body language.

A few weeks ago i was out with my coworkers at a bar and spent the most of the time chatting with an overseas client, a significantly older, happily married man. Although he conveniently kept finding reasons to lightly stroke my arms and back, our dynamic remained appropriately discreet. Or so I thought until i saw my one work friend staring pointedly at us, more specifically our hands, and realised I’d been toying with his wedding band. Oops.

Luckily (or not) the situation did not escalate much further with him, however i did end up making out with a similarly attractive stranger later that night to fill the void. And continuing to plot more bar prowls of course