If you know me this might surprise you.

But I think that I might be bad in bed…?

I know that there are things that make me good. I think I’m fun, I’m eager, I’m down to try things, I’m enthusiastic, I enjoy it. And I know that’s half of being good in bed.

But skills wise I wonder if I’m actually any good.

I love giving head but maybe I’m too quick with it, I worry that my small mouth makes it harder to avoid teeth, my gag reflex isn’t great. I know not every guy likes deep throating (my hubby isn’t a big fan) and I actually love it but I can’t really handle it. The bigger the dick the worse I am.

I think I suck at riding. Any position I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing, I can make myself cum from cowgirl if I’m really turned on but I can’t really make guys cum from on top. I used to. I had this move I called it the finisher lol I’d do it and they’d cum in a minute. But now every time I try to do it I almost break the cock if it accidentally slips out. I also don’t have the greatest stamina with certain positions (but I also think that’s not as big of a deal cuz some of these moves are basically doing squats on top of a dick, so I wouldn’t expect anyone to be able to go for tooooo long)

I can be extremely submissive, which might sound great but in reality it causes me to kinda lay there and wait for instruction. I am nervous to make the next moves so I wait for the guy to direct what we do, I love being fucked so I want him to do the work pounding my body while I am his little sex toy. I do things like moving my hips, grinding, kissing, moaning, dirty talk (when I’m feeling confident, this is hit or miss), so I wouldn’t say I just lay there or I’m a dead fish but idk

Then with women I just have no idea what I’m doing, I try to do things that I think would feel good for me but who knows. I’ve only been with 3 women so I’m not as worried about this but I do want to be able to please women when i sleep with them.

I wouldn’t say I’m lazy in bed. I just think maybe I’m not that skilled and the more I think this the more insecure I get, which causes me to make even less moves. I haven’t really had any complaints but I’ve been really in my head about it recently so I’m wondering if I’m actually just a slut that’s bad in bed.