I have recently shared with my wife that I am turned on by the thought of her being with other men. We have talked about it a lot and toyed with dirty talk and chatting on Reddit to indulge the fantasy. I am usually pretty torn between the idea of it being just fantasy versus reality. At times it turns me on so much at the thought of it and at other times I think when it really came down to it I'm not sure I actually want it to happen in reality, maybe just stay a fantasy instead. I've told her what my "rules" would be with it all if the opportunity ever presented itself and one of the main rules is simply the communication between us so that I'm never caught off guard by it and nothing ever happened behind my back where I didn't find out until afterwards. There is a small part of me however that feels like maybe the way to actually commit to the fantasy is for her to randomly surprise me on day with a video of her sucking a different man's cock or something along those lines. I am sire I would feel a variety of emotions but I guarantee I would be rock hard watching it.