Right after breaking up with my ex last year (mainly due to dead bedroom/porn addiction on his end), I went on a trip to London. We were supposed to go together, but he decided not to come along after the breakup. It was a sad but healing trip for me, as I think I needed the space in another country to process everything going on in my life and in my head.

I ended up posting to the dirtyr4r subreddit to get my groove back, as I felt totally unattractive and undesirable at that point. Surely enough, I got in touch with a handsome Londoner who was into the exact same kinks as I was. He was tall with luscious dark hair and an athletic build. I felt somewhat short and dumpy in comparison, but my nerves immediately disappeared as soon as we met.

We got back to my hotel room, where he licked, spanked, and fucked me within an inch of my life, and I never doubted how attractive I was after that. I ended up getting loads of male attention throughout the trip and realized that my ex bf’s porn addiction had nothing to do with me. I hope to go back someday, ideally not to fuck an anonymous stranger.