I had this rule with my ex whereby I could demand to be eaten out when I wanted and where i wanted and he had to follow. While I'm a very submissive type and he was typically very dominant, we both agreed that we wanted to explore maybe changing the dynamic a little bit.

At first, I used to text him to come by my dorm room; I was usually watching porn and already playing with myself, waiting for him. He would try to make eye contact with me while eating me out, but I would either cover him with a blanket or tell him to close his eyes and focus on eating me out so I could watch the video.

We then started to get more kinky. While I was taking a break between the classes, I would text him to meet up in the library studying. Once, I insisted he eat me out while my roommate was asleep in a bed next to us.

Usually, when I finished, I would tap him on the head and tell him he had been a good boy. I loved the way he looked at me each time I finished, wanting and begging for more, like a puppy begging for a snack. We did have sex apart from this "experiment," of course.

Anyway, that experience allowed me to find my “dominant” side, and I’ve been exploring (and loving it) more and more ever since.