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I 19F Started Dating my boyfriends ex bestfriend, but I have a dilemma
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For backstory, I posted 2 of my previous stories here about somewhat of a love triangle between me, my ex boyfriend, and his best friend (my current boyfriend), to update everyone on this, me and his best friend have been dating since the day after everything went down.

Were both sophomores in college and I currently live with my ex’s ex best friend, lets call him 2. I have a dorm but I spend more time at 2’s apartment. My boyfriend (2) decided to go and visit home because of the hurricane to stay safe but I decided to stay back at his apartment near campus. He left as soon as he heard the news of a hurricane, and before he left he said I can only have only one friend over because he doesn’t want me trashing the place. Its been 2 days Ive had the place to myself and all I have been doing is sleeping, netflix and the gym.

Ive been going to this gym for 2 years pretty regularly, I would say I know most of the faces in the gym. On Friday, a cardio day when I was getting off the treadmill a man, lets call him 3, who was about six feet three inches tall, extremely handsome and built perfectly came up to me, we made a bit of small talk, and after I told him I have a boyfriend, he handed me a piece of ripped paper with his number on it saying “CALL ME” at the top before leaving in a hurry. Since that day my mind has been racing, I havent been thinking about 2 the same, everything feels different, maybe its just something that I cant explain, maybe its the fact that I am sitting here lonlely, but all I have texted 3 since then was that I cant do this because I have a boyfriend before he told me that he is available any time. I still feel like I love 2 but I cant get my mind off of 3.

This morning while I was getting in my car coming back from the gym I stumbled upon 3 on a run, and as soon as he spotted me, he came up to me sweating and gasping for air, he asked me for water, I told him I didn’t have any so he would have to come with me to get water, this is what I thought I could do to could get him out of my mind, just sit in a car with him and see all of his red flags but I was completely wrong, he was nothing but mysterious. About 15 minutes later we get to 2’s apartment and I invite him up for water obviously, he took 2 bottles from the fridge and before leaving he tried to make a move on me, I was super close to making out with him then and there but I pulled back and told him to stop. He left the apartment right after and I thought I would never hear from him again. but about 20 minutes ago, right after I finished organizing the kitchen, he texted me a picture of his cars passenger seat, telling me to be ready at 8:39, I couldn’t really tell what car it was but I saw bucket seats with rainbow looking lights going around the car so Im guessing he has a nice car. I am still sitting here divided on what I should do…

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