I didn't think it was possible either, but it's happened a few times for me and I'm truly grateful. Am I 6'5", in finance, with a trust fund, and blue eyes? No. I'm 5'7", in healthcare, with a decent savings, but nothing crazy. I do have blue eyes though, so maybe that's the key??? Nope. What actually leads to success is just being a normal person with good communication skills, showing genuine interest in making the other person feel safe, and not being pushy or weird. Can't tell you how many people I've talked to that said that they decieded to respond to my message or post, out of the hundreds they received, because I was the one guy that didn't give them the willies. So unfortunate that so much of Reddit is awful, but the weather isn't all rain clouds. There really are some great people on here and I've met more than a few.

Girl 1: Talked for awhile after she determined that she would give me my first real blowjob. We met at a Dunkin by my apartment and somehow made it past my roommates and into my bedroom. We had an absolute blast and I blasted her face, per her request, though she did not seem to be expecting the amount that was delivered. We hung out a number of times and loved it all. Ended up falling out of touch. Hope she's doing well. 

Girl 2: She was a bit older than me and we met at her apartment (be smarter and meet somewhere in public, not that anything happened, but good practice). She introduced me to toothy blowjobs and I know there is an audience for them, but I learned that it's not for me. Great time and great person, but one and done. 

Girl 3: Plan was to go down on her for as long as possible and mission accomplished. My jaw hurt, my mouth was sore, and I was as hard as I've ever been (had to think unsexy thoughts in the staircase, just so I wasn't that guy walking around in public). The experience of doing the randomactofmuffdive was fun, but did learn that it wasn't for me. I had a great time, but felt like too much was missing. That was all she was interested in and we set that boundary at the beginning. Have to respect that. Lesson learned though.

Girl 4: Absolutely incredible experience. We've hung out multiple times and continue to talk. If she didn't live across the country, I have a feeling my weekends would be spent either laying on my back or holding her hips. The first girl that I have ever met that literally fell in love with my dick. I'm not rocking a rolling pin, but very thankful that she liked it so much. Tied with the best blowjob I've ever received and absolutely loved to hear her moan. Can't wait until work brings her to Boston again. 

Girl 5: I'll set the stage. I was in a dry spell and happened to get talking to this absolutely stunning girl. I love an athletic girl and she fits the description perfectly. The issue was, I was too excited. She wasn't someone that liked foreplay and just wanted to get fucked and while that's what I did, I did not last as long as I normally do. On top of that, she didn't like when guys went down on her, so I couldn't even make up for my performance. Sometimes, you just have to hit the showers and hope you get another shot. 

Girl 6: And thankfully I did. Absolutely incredible individual. Incredible body, incredible personality, incredible enthusiasm, and a healthy dose of dirty talk / femdom. First girl to ever tie me up and first girl to go down on my butt. Have never cum so hard in my life and might never again... though we do have plans to spend time together in October (work schedules...). Thoroughly looking forward to seeing her again and while sending pictures back and forth is fun and all, not the same as that face-to-face time, especially when she's on top. 

Be aware, these successes have taken place over the course of a few years. There have also been so many girls that I've talked to and then it just doesn't work out (scheduling issues, change of heart, relationship stuff, etc). Life is complicated and people are complex. Again, being communicative and considerate goes a long way and even if you don't end up meeting, it is always nice to have a good interaction with someone. Anyway, just wanted to share my story, share some advice, and share that success on here does happen. I wish y'all the best and hope you all meet great people too. I will also post an update if one comes my way.