I’ve been on Reddit for a few years now but this is my first post. I’m a married 43M, relatively fit and reasonably attractive from what I’m told.

My wife is the same age and it’s both of our second marriages. She has a high sex drive. We have previously done a hardcore couple swap in the same bed and a MFM threesome. The couple swap was with her girlfriend (29F). Which was quite possibly the best night of my life.

That brings me to this post. I’ve always been one to look at women and my wife will even point them out. In the last two years or so I’ve been almost obsessed with seeing attractive women in public and my mind instantly starts fantasizing about what they look like naked and what it would be like to fuck them. I’m constantly rubbing my dick all day and night.

My wife has told me that she wants to see me fuck another woman again and wants to join in on the fun. I haven’t been able to bring myself to do it but I see these women in public and think about that exact scenario. It makes my dick hard just thinking about it. I know it’s a good problem to have.

Has Reddit tricked my mind into thinking that there are more women out there willing to join us or is it actually more common than I think? Until I figure it out, I’ll just have to keep rubbing my dick fantasizing about strangers that I see in public.