My husband and I are non-monogamous, we have been for a little over a year and a half. He loves talking about sleeping with other women when we’re in bed. He’ll ask if he can fuck random women we know and look for my reaction

At first, it really bothered me. I felt like he was obsessed with other women and that he didn’t wanna have sex with me. But then I started to wonder if I really cared if he had sex with other women or not. And I’m not sure that I do. It makes him feel good to be hit on and flirt. He always says the real thing isn’t as good as he thinks it’s going to be and he prefers having sex with me anyway… but he still wants it. So one day I finally told him he was free to have sex with whoever he wanted.

He has yet to take me up on the offer but you should see how excited he gets every time he goes out, even just with the boys… that little glimmer of hope