(Sorry for the long read, just excited) I started going to the gym over the summer and to say I'm a beginner is an understatement. I always need help and I'm pretty open to people's suggestions. One time I was struggling on a lats machine when I feel someone help me pull it down. It was an older man (late 40s). I've seen him around since we go at the same time. I told him thank you and he gave me some advice. Since then he's been very helpful. I see him like 4x a week and honestly started developing a crush. The days I knew I'd see him I started wearing my best gym outfits (very tight shorts and a crop top). We talk a lot and I even found out he has a son that's older than me, which idk what's wrong with me but made me more excited. I love working out in front of him knowing he's looking at my body. It's just a guilty pleasure that really excites me even though I doubt it will go further.