I've been a closeted SA for as long as I can remember, it's always been a double life.

I met my ExGf on an app where I made a straight up confession to the double life that I lead, and she replied that she's the exact same way.

We're both very attractive people, we have a pretty good life, we're both working professionals, up there in our careers, we're both very intelligent, social, type a, just overall awesome - then we have our double life as SA's that really, really bonded us almost immediately upon chatting.

Both of us were in relationships at the time. Both of us lived in different States (USA). We wanted to meet in the way that our double life led us, not the way that our public life did. She flew out here to meet me. She got a hotel room, Stripped naked, Spread Eagle, Texted me when she was ready in the room. I came into the hotel, used the elevator, walked down the hall to her hotel room; immediately ducked into the bathroom; stripped naked; came out of the bathroom and walked a little down the hallway to see her totally spread eagle, nude on the bed. I was inside her immediately, before we even said hello, making out in the most passionate way imaginable between two people; taking as much pregnancy risks as we could possibly take for hours and hours, each day, for an entire weekend.

We ended up dating for 5 years.

It was by far the best sex of our lives.