I've had 5 different women choke down my married cock in the last year, and it's definitely become somewhat of an addiction. 2 have been also married (and their husbands, nor my wife don't know) 2 have been local college students, and 1 was technically not from reddit but once I steered her towards my history to read my confessions about my previous encounters and some things showing off my huge loads of cum, she was pretty quick to make time to have me over and get on her knees for me.

Before you go looking for aforementioned posts, I recently cleared out for the sake of discretion, so sorry about that. But I did save all my confessions elsewhere and can share them again if you express interest.

So anyway, here is my routine. Because of the clandestine nature of my secret second sex life, I delete the reddit app off my phone every day before heading home to the wife. So the first thing I do when I get to work in the morning is to download and log back in. I then follow this routine. I search for my city plus the relevant tags to see if any women have made new posts. In my case, this requires two searches. One for Philadelphia, one for Philly. Sometimes I will also search for Jersey and NJ too, as south jersey is close enough.

i will qualify any new posts. Often times they are obviously bots or scammers, I don't engage. Sometimes they seem legit, so I send a message, but pretty quickly into the exchange it becomes obvious that they are a bot or scammer. I block and move on. Often times, if it IS a legit person, I may not even get a message reply. But every now and then, I will get a reply, and begin to get to know the woman on the other side.

Another search I will often do is to come into this sub, and again, search for my city name. I enjoy finding slutty confessions that mention the city, I think it's hot to find Philadelphians on here. I will also search the comments, as sometimes people will comment and include where they are from. Always sort by newest. Again, I will qualify the accounts before reaching out, and follow the same protocols.

I never show my face or reveal any personal information about myself, I am however very upfront and direct about what I am looking for, and about my relationship status. I am only interested in finding women that either don't care about my status, or even better, are turned on about my status.

Another tactic I employ is to visit subs that are dedicated to what I search for. Deepthroat, throatfucking, facefucking, blowjobs etc. I will sort those by top in the last 24 hours, look for posts that have a fair number of comments, and read through the comments looking for women that are making comments like "I wish someone would do this to me" etc. I will then qualify those accounts and reach out if it seems viable. This method is certainly a long shot, as now I'm working outside of geographic filters and tbh I have yet to find a woman in my city in this way- but I have found some within a couple of hours of me.

Now here is the kicker- even with all of this methodical searching- not once have any of these methods led to success. (not yet, anyway.)

So how did I manage to introduce 5 different throats to my cock in the last 9 months?

I also make my own posts. I make posts in my local dating subreddits, and of course, raobj. I am usually VERY direct in these posts, very aggressive, and even a little bit degrading. I figure that the women I'm after get off on being used, get off on pleasing, get off on being submissive. I know that my posts will typically offend 99% of the women that come across them, but every now and then, a woman will stumble across one of my posts and it will be written as if it speaks to her directly. Because these women, these women that love to be used like fleshlights- they ARE out there. So I cast my net very narrowly, seeking to catch only them. I am after a specific fantasy, a very specific dynamic. I fuck throats like Hobie. I'm not looking to act like I'm dating and getting to know someone, hoping to get them onto their knees because I'm such a nice guy. I'm a throat fucker and I'm only interested in women who crave to have their throats fucked. So that's how I word my posts.

And surprisingly, that works. Every success has been from a response to one of my posts. Not once has me responding to a woman's post worked out for me. The competition is too high, frankly. It's a game of numbers. And pretty much every woman that has reached out to me- they often have very little int their history. They lurk in the shadows, looking for that perfect cock that is going to be too irresistible to pass up. They are looking for that perfect guy, who comes off genuine and experienced, to help bring them out of the shadows and finally find the courage to meet with a redditor.

So that's my confession. I'm just reflecting on all the fun I've had recently, and thought I might make a post to sort of just layout the framework of how I've managed to find that fun. Maybe this can serve as a guide for another redditor, maybe I'm just venting.

Thanks for reading.