Most of the time, my husband is the dominant sexual partner in our relationship. He keeps me on a leash, ties me down, spanks me red and basically does as he pleases.

But to keep the balance in our marriage, one weekend a month we flip the script. For that weekend, he crawls around on the leash. He gets his hands tied to his ankles. And he gets paddled until it hurts to sit down.

Plus a lot more.

We started with me just bossing him around and using handcuffs on him. But it gradually came to include lots of anal penetration, first with a bullet vibe, then with a pegging harness and finally a full strap-on.

The first time he realized he could cum hands-free from anal stimulation alone, he looked equal parts turned on and emasculated. Then when he came from anal stimulation with his cock locked in a chastity cage, I knew Role Reversal Weekend would become a regular thing.

I keep pushing the envelope, doing things like making him wear my panties, pee sitting down and eat my pussy from his knees — just like a woman giving a blowjob.

Then when it’s over he goes back to wearing the pants in the relationship. It keeps him grounded, makes me feel sexually empowered and keeps our relationship fresh.

Every couple should try it.