For a little while now, I've been posting ads on various subreddits, inviting guys who are maybe a bit curious about their sexuality to engage in a non-traditional form of watch-play. The premise is simple: the other party strips off their clothes and goes about their normal activities - no pressure, no instructions, just them being themselves in the comfort of their own skin. I watch, completely unseen, only communicating by text.

I want to confess that I've done this a lot. Like at least 50 times with different guys, probably more. I've 'watched' guys browse the internet, work out, play video games, shower etc. They never see me. The beauty of this arrangement is the absolute freedom the other party has. They don't have to do anything they're not comfortable with. They don't even have to touch themselves.

Despite the nerves and the uncertainty, there's a tangible undercurrent of excitement. Despite my clear disclaimer that they don't need to touch themselves, most, in their nervousness and arousal, eventually do. For many, I'm the first guy they've ever revealed themselves to in this manner, or even the first to see them naked. And for me, it never gets old.