My wife 32F & I are married for 2 years & before that we dated for 1 year. We used to enjoy and get wild but all we did was make out. She was hesitant in having sex & somehow chickens out at the last moment as she becomes super conscious. We have tried talking, seeking help, tried using toys but her desire to have sex is 0.

I even proposed an idea of making her comfortable to get another partner in bed but she is not ok with it too. On the other hand, she enjoys dry humping. Whereas, I have a very high sex drive. Before I met her, I used to be with a lot of women & have tried so many different things. And now everything seems such a distant dream as the woman I love, I can’t have sex with her.

Of late, I have tried Reddit and I come across so many women whose sexual desires remain unfulfilled & I love to read about them & also trying to connect with women who are on the same page as I am. I don’t regret sexting with other women or even getting down & dirty with them as sex for me is the most important & beautiful thing.