I have to say in advance: I hate to admit it but I somehow like what happened.

So when I was on a city trip with my girlfriend she was approached on the street by a stranger. It wasn’t the first time it happened but the first time while I was with her. He complimented her but she told him I was her boyfriend. Instead of leaving he then switched and told me he was sorry and didn‘t know but he had to give it a try since she was absolutely beautiful. Then he congratulated me for having her as my girlfriend and was really nice to both of us. He got us into a longer talk and at the end we exchanged our contact details to keep in contact because we had planned to spend some time together the next day. So we did that and he became like a good friend to us. I didn’t think of anything bad and I liked him, I also think/thought that I was more in contact with him than my girlfriend was.

A few weeks later when we were back home we invited him to our place for a weekend and he accepted. I spent most of the time with him alone and so he was just a really good friend of mine.

What I didn’t know was that he still was really interested in my girlfriend and I also didn’t know how much they texted behind my back. So after a long time of meeting him and thinking he was a really nice guy I found out that my girlfriend met him without me knowing it. They met in a city not too far away from our home city when my girlfriend was meant to be on a girls trip. After I found out I asked her about it but it didn’t happen anything the way I thought and she told me they just randomly met there and talked for a short time and then went on alone so I was reassured.

It only took 2 weeks since then that my girlfriend told me she wanted to end the relationship. I didn’t see that coming and didn’t know why and she just told me she thought about everything and she didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore because she needed more time and it just wouldn’t fit. I was heartbroken and was extremely sad to have lost her. I tried everything to get her back but she didn’t really react. I even told this guy about it and he was so sorry for me and offered to spend some time together so I could visit him at a weekend and he would distract me from her. But I didn’t have the time to go there and so I didn’t visit him. But I talked a lot about it with him.

I later found out that on the day my girlfriend broke up with me she went to his city and visited him. And only 2 days after the breakup they started a relationship. I didn’t know for a long time because they kept it secret to me. I only found out because she posted a story in which she was with him and a friend of mine who she forgot to delete as a follower saw it and sent it to me. I asked both of them if it was true and suddenly this guy changed completely in his way of talking to me. He just started to tell me how stupid I was that I trusted him and how I just lost my girlfriend to him without noticing. He told me they met several times without me knowing before the breakup and he always just spent time with me to make me trust him but he just wanted to see her and make sure she would leave me.

Of course I was upset and shocked about it but at the same time I somehow liked how he talked to me. I liked how he made me feel totally weak and showed me that I am. However now they‘re together for a while and I started to get in contact with both of them and also spent time with them again. It‘s weird that in the beginning of it I was the one kissing her while we spent time as a trio and now I‘m the one sitting next to them making out and him grabbing her ass next to me and holding her hand. But I also kind of like it. I don’t know why but being so weak and having lost her to him is just hot to me and I can’t really be angry, even if I should be.