Several years ago, for about 2 weeks, my friend Alex and I were friends with benefits. Somehow, our friendship survived a fortnight of some of the most intense, taboo sex of our lives, and we're still close years later.

We get lunch every once in a while. And for the last year or so, I've made it a point to wear something I knew would drive him crazy.

These outfits have included:

-Milkmaid dresses -Off-shoulder shirts -Skirts with high slits

I've pushed it further recently, and most recently I wore a tight tank top with no bra. My nipples were visible the whole time. He couldn't take his eyes off them.

It's innocent enough. I'm not trying to get him to leave his wife or anything. But I do hope that every time he sees me, he'll think a little bit about taking my clothes off like he used to.