Quick backstory:

My husband and I are mid 30's (34/35) and have been together since highschool. We have a great Marriage; sex has been amazing over the years, we are both really comfortable with eachother and share everything. Sincerely very happy.

I'm 34, my husband would describe me as "Mom Fit." I don't have abs, but things are where they should be. Small C's that survived 2 kids, and I really like my ass, so does my husband. I'm a cute mom wink

About 2 months ago (middle of May) we got a little tipsy with some friends and the talks of "fantasies" came up. Didn't go anywhere that night but he brought it back up when it was just us. His has always been "surprise sex" which is really fun; a lot of random places and forces me to be spontaneous.

Mine; mine has always been to hookup with a stranger in a bar. My husband and I both didn't lose our virginity to eachother but we have also been together since his senior year, My junior, so some experiences we both have just never had. That's always been mine. We've tried role-playing. It's hot.

My Slutty Confession:

So a few weekends ago I went out for girls night, myself and 2 friends and they usually go like this. We pick a new bar, usually with food and music, we go out enjoy eachother. Friend 1 usually leaves first (9/10) friend 2 and I stay until 11-12, she uber's home and my husband picks me up, we share the gossip of the night that i already hadn't texted him. Ok.

The night started normal, picked a new bar in a small down, supposed to have good poutine (slut for poutine but different story). I'm wearing my favorite jeans that really highlight my hips and show off my ass, and this cute yellow summer top, covers everything but has the potential to show some cleavage when I want too.

My turn to pickup drinks, the bar is busy but the bartender is flying so no rush. Noticed a younger guy trying to catch my eye. I pretend not to notice at first. He's trying while not trying to be too obvious, it's cute not creepy I swear! 😆 Finally I cave, and catch his gaze, smiling at him. He introduces himself as "Ben" and he's very handsome.

Ben is mid 20's and very very handsome. His shoulders stood out immediately, you can tell he really works out; I caught myself thinking of his abs. Brown hair, clean shaven and handsome. Like quarterback/athletic handsome. We talk while we are waiting for our drinks; I point out I'm with my friends (also both attractive older 39/42 mom's) and once the drinks came, I went to my ladies table and he found an open seat at the bar (near the order station conveniently)The girls saw me flirting, I indulge in the fantasy with them, but it was never going to happen.

The night was going great, I had zero issues when we needed more drinks, unfortunately (sarcastically) having to talk to Ben every time I waited. We clicked. He was very charming. He noticed my wedding ring, I pointed to the ladies, who got a cute wave and waved back, and that's how the night continued.

Friend 1 goes to leave around 930 and friend 2 and I are enjoying the band so we are planning on staying later. Randomly she gets a text from a booty call, she's divorced, and has plans for him to grab her. He's also quite attractive when he shows up, good for her. So now I'm alone and waiting. Texted hubby when she filled me in, and he's been getting all the details all night, including Ben. He's about 30-40 minutes at home from the bar and i tell him not to worry or hurry, I joke that I'm still enjoying myself and have Ben for company... and then he brings it up.

My fantasy comes true:

This is the exact text I got from him that set one of my wildest nights in motion, my first extramarital experience and the first man, other than my husband I've been with since 17:

"See how far you can take it; this is what you wanted isn't it? Sincerely hun, if you really want to, see what you got. 😗"

Followed by a phone call with probably 1000 "are you sure" and plans to pick me up after I was done.

The sex after be picked me up was hands down the best sex we have ever had as a couple. God he made me feel like I was only ever going to be his again, after a man who had never touched me before had his way with me, explored me for the first time. Omg the whole night turned into pure sexual ecstasy.

Ben... thank you for an amazing night and being my first step in something new with my husband.

I might post the details of after we left the bar later... I have really shared those details with anyone yet and neither of my friends know this even happened.