I used to sext with a girl and send nudes, and she also became a good sex friend with whom I talked about everything and nothing. After some time, she asked me to motivate her to go to the gym. I told her how I would do it, and she suggested that I join her. So, we started going to the gym together ( not physically together cuz she lived in Australia and I live in France ) and sent quite provocative photos. She wasn't just a sex friend anymore but also a gym buddy . I started to see changes in my body: a thinner waist and less fat on my arms. However, some time later, she told me that her girlfriend (whom I didn't know existed) found our conversations, and we had to stop talking to each other. This demotivated me, and I stopped going to the gym. Now, I only go once a week, which isn't much. I want to find a girl or guy who can push and motivate me to go regularly.