I (27, M, bisexual, former swimmer, slim physique) lately have enjoyed going to the grocery store, getting car washed, doing random everyday stuff while wearing what I call my “cute yoga bunny” outfit (smooth black yoga leggings, thick slouchy white socks that cover my lower leg, an oversized T shirt, and sometimes a hoodie).

I received more stares than usual by some of the older (whom I assume are straight/“curious”) males at the store. Last week I had one guy follow me around and appear to “accidentally” arrive in the same aisles as I would shop. He followed me in the same aisle as I was, about 10 feet from where I was standing.

It was very evident he was looking at my spandex covered thighs, and I saw him glance at my slouchy socks. I decided to appear lost and confused, like I needed help in selecting a purchase, or decide where I was going to go after the store. I put one of my legs behind the other so as to look cute and devious, and turned my back a bit toward him so he could see more of my swimmer’s butt in my yoga leggings.