I got to know him on a company party where my boyfriend (M31) took me. First few words he gave me were compliments but I didn’t think about anything near what went on afterwards. He‘s a handsome guy, groomed, wearing this perfectly fitting suit with his hair styled in a nice way and a nice groomed beard. He‘s 38 years old, tall and is a really talented speaker. He definitely knows how to behave in his position. I chatted with him some more at this company party, but always with my boyfriend next to us and most of the time they did the main talking.

It took a while until I met him again, this time I was in a cafe where I usually went to study and write my research papers. So I did some research there and he came in. I saw him nearly immediately after he entered, he went to the counter, ordered and waited for his coffee to be served. I just tried to hide because I was uncomfortable with the situation but he saw me and came to me after he got his coffee. He remembered me from the event and just wanted to say hi, so far so oki I guess. When he noticed that I was there for my study, he asked about the topic and since he knew a little about it he offered me some help if needed. I should just talk to my boyfriend and he could arrange a meeting.

I talked to my boyfriend about it at some point and he thought it was a great idea to get some help and so he made up a meeting for us. When I arrived at the company my boyfriend brought me to the right office and so we went in, there was a short small talk between my boyfriend and his boss and then my boyfriend left. We talked about my study and the research paper I had to write. Our conversation was filled with little compliments from him to me and I have to say that hearing them from this really well dressed successful and good looking guy did something to me. I didn’t realize it back then but later I did. He gave me a lot of sources where I could look things up or that I could quote and nearly knew exactly where I would find the things I could need. He seemed extremely smart to me (which he obviously is).

At the end of the meeting he gave me his number just in case I needed anything else from him or if something was left unclear. I didn’t need it for that purpose but it happened that I texted him. While I was drunk. Because my friends (and myself so I can‘t blame them) made me do it. We played a game and I got a task saying that I had to text the best looking person I knew (different gender and no partners allowed). We discussed who it was for me and I told them in drunk mood that it was my boyfriends boss. Long story short they made me text him and so I did. I obviously regretted it when I was sober but he already answered with me in my drunk mood and he was pretty cool in his answer with wishing me a good evening.

Some days later I got a text from him in which he wasn‘t that cool anymore. He told me he was thinking if he should tell my boyfriend about it at work and if he would already know about it. It led to him not exactly telling me but leading the conversation to a way where I got what he wanted. And I just did him the favor to ask him if I could make him help me in another meeting. So now in fact it was me asking for this but he was the one starting it. However, we arranged a meeting, this time without my boyfriend knowing and not in the office but at his place. He picked me up from the city in this really nice car and we went back, shortly talking but both of us knew we didn’t meet for talking. So this time he was really dominant forcing me to repeat my opinion on him and what I texted him, degrading my boyfriend, calling me a bad … and all kind of things. This was the first time I had sex with him. And as I thought before this that it would only be this one time, afterwards I felt the urge to repeat it. And I let him know. And he accepted.

Now this goes on for 3 years. I‘ve even been on vacation with him once and in my time with him I really get to know about a fancy and luxurious lifestyle. There’s a high price I have to pay for it but I still do. My boyfriend still doesn’t know about it and I luckily have two of my friends who know about it and give me alibi’s if I need them.