F37, straight (mostly lol), married (happily), but I stare at women, flirt with women, and get off thinking about women. I don’t watch a lot of porn but if I do I’m staring at the girl (or girls). I even get off in front of the mirror sometimes. My husband knows how to get me off but when he goes down on me I always close my eyes and imagine it’s a woman.

I love checking out women at the gym especially and make excuses to ask gorgeous women about their workouts and lifting technique just so I can stare at them and talk to them. I definitely linger in the locker room longer than I should trying to check out specific women. I know it’s creepy but I just can’t help myself. When I’m at the park with my kids I’ll chat with other moms, and it seems innocent but if they’re hot my thoughts are anything but innocent. My husband is a college professor and I come up with excuses to visit him on campus just to walk around and check out the college girls.

This is a recent development for me over just the last few years and I’m at a point where, although I’d never cheat, I really, REALLY want to.