My ex of eight years got married a couple of months ago to the man she cheated on me with. We’ve barely talked in the three years since she cheated on me, but I’ve never been able to move on.

Very recently, my ex started DMing me when I post thirst traps. The other night we were DMing each other back and forth until 1am. She says she’s gonna be in my city on a work trip in and few months and that she wants to “grab a friendly drink” with me. She’s also started sending me private pics - with some encouragement on my part.

I’m almost positive if and when we meet up, she’ll let me fuck her if I want it. Tbh I’ve wanted it every day since we broke up. We both agree we had amazing sexual chemistry together (she tells me it’s much better than what her and her new husband have).

Part of me wants to fuck her just because I can. Another part wants to reclaim her for myself - even if just momentarily. A darker part of me, wants to hate fuck her as revenge for what she did to me.

What should I do? Would you fuck your recently married ex if given the opportunity? Would you be ok with breaking them up even if you know you don’t want to be with this person?

Might post a pic of her if this post takes off.