So last night, I (20FTM) decided to meet up with a friend(19M) I used to know in high school; my boyfriend and I had already talked about having potential fwbs, and he already said it was okay; me and this guy hooked up last night, but it wasn't gratifying, for starters, he didn't use foreplay or try to get me wet. He just shoved it in, and it was hella uncomfortable, not to mention, we did it in an alley; we did try on the park bench (no one was there) until a car headed in our direction, we got spooked and headed into the alleyway. It was a pretty painful experience. I even told him to wait for a while, and he didn't let me adjust; it hurt so bad. He also couldn’t keep himself in me, and it kept falling out. And the ground was a contribution to the worst sex I've ever had