So,

I have had a relationship with this girl (Emma).

We are both in relationships but feel unsatisfied.

I only reach out to her when I know she is out of town but I love it.

We have a mutual understanding of wanting to be together even though we both have partners. This is where it gets spicy...

Every time this girl and I want to have fun we play online. I met her at uni and she is everything that I dream of. It's mostly flirting and making eachother feel safe. BUT, whenever we travel out of town we know the other will be available for sexting.

I have gotten so many nudes from her and don't know how to continue. I love my girlfriend and she let's me play with others but I haven't brought this girl up into our relationship.

Is it right for me to get nudes from a girl who I'm not with and who really wants me?