One night, a group of us were drinking and playing sociables when a provocative question arose: "Have you tried anal?" Opinions were mixed, leading to an animated discussion about whether it was enjoyable and if the experience differed when done drunk or sober. One girl was particularly enthusiastic, passionately advocating for it and encouraging others to give it a try. As the conversation eventually wound down, I found myself later that evening talking to one of the women who had never tried it. She confided in me, admitting that after hearing how many of her friends had experienced it, she felt somewhat vanilla. Our chat took an unexpected turn, leading to a playful bet: she agreed to let me be her first if the people of Reddit concurred that it was worth trying and that she might actually enjoy it. This wager left us both curious and amused, wondering what the collective wisdom of the internet would ultimately advise. As we discussed the bet, we realized that consulting Reddit was a way to seek a variety of opinions and perhaps encourage the experience for her. It added an extra layer of fantasy and anticipation to our conversation, making us eager to see what advice and experiences others might