I am (44M), I've been in the same relationship for 13 years come December. That said, my girlfriend (45F) openly expressed about 3 years ago that she felt as though her body was changing and that she rarely has sex drive. So, in that 3 years, we've had sex twice, both of which were in the first year. And nothing, not even mutual masterbation. All this said to say, I still have a sex drive, sometimes I feel like it's stronger now than ever before, and admittedly masterbate daily if I can, every other if not. A little about me and my kinks I guess you can say. Nothing turns me on faster than womens feet.....bare or in sock feet. Might sound crazy, but hair...I like a woman with hair in places that most men despise. Eyes. Etc. Anyhow, my DM's are open to anyone that wants to chat.