I recently found out that I have a new kink. But im not entirely sure what its called. Basically I like when my friends get cat called, hit on, non con threats, or descriptions of what men would do to them.

This started in college when me and my friends went to a frat party. We were dressed nicely not slutty or anything. But we went to the party to chill and drink. But my friends would constantly get hit on by other guys. I was always so interested when they got it on but never me. For example, this one guy who was hot was trying to hit on me. I just wasnt feeling it and he left. But then I saw him hitting on one of my friends. I then started to get wet thinking about him hitting on my friend. I was nearby and I heard him describe what he would do to her if they were alone. I got wet, but if he said those words to me I know I wouldnt get turned on.

This was emphasized even more when me and my friends hang out and get cat called by men. For example theres always those creeps in the city who yell out “id love a night with you”, “i would love to own you”, “nice ass”, “pop a tit” or “wanna some dick?” My friend would always get creeped out but it would turn me on. Additionally I know if I was told those things I would be grossed out. I get turned on when they get comments. It doesnt matter to me if they like it or not, i’ll probably still be turned on by them.

I wanted to type this because I wanted your opinions. Am I a bad friend for being turned on by this? Should I try to stop and comfort them instead? Also what kink is this called?