I got talked into sex with an older married coworker when I was a 19 year old airman. It was 2001 and I had recently gotten to my first duty station in Arizona. There was a Tech Sargent I regularly dealt with in my daily duties. He would always compliment me and did every thing he could to make me feel good about myself. It didn't take long before he invited me to his home and introduced me to his wife and baby boy. That led to me babysitting for them and a friendship within a few weeks.

Before I knew it, he turned up the heat and we were having sex. At the time I didn't know they were swingers, but I was introduced to other older married friends, both swingers and none swingers. I loved how they treated me, especially when compared to guys my age. Eventually, I left that duty station and went through a commissioning program.

What stuck with me from that experience was just how great older married men treated me. They were incredibly enthusiastic about exploring my body and satisfying my sexual desire. They were hungry to sexually satisfy me. Not one was possessive or jealous and they were always very safe. I felt incredibly hot every time I was with one. I also dated single guys and was monogamous with them, but there was always problems. I'd break up with them and immediately go find a married man.

I learned the secret to finding the perfect married man to fuck from the Tech Sargent who introduced me to married men. They have to be happily married, never fuck a married guy with a rocky marriage. Mid 30's and older men only, avoid young men who don't know who they are. Stick with men with kids. The more a man has to lose the more he will be discrete and the more he will want to protect his marriage. I also learned that most of the time I had to let the man know I was intrested in a sexual relationship with them. It catches them by surprise, but as a woman you have to be persistent and reassure him that you are only interested in a FWB. Nothing more. Be bold ladies.

I've been married for 12 years now, we are swingers, but only play occasionally. I met my husband on Ashley Madison. Yea, we were both on the same page as to what we wanted, but we were both single. FWB thing lasted for a few years before we started a relationship and ended up married.