Abstract: This will be a long post so here’s a summary. Discussing how my sexual preferences have changed since I lost my virginity at 17 and how Reddit has allowed me to find out the sexual kinks I like and find confidence in them.

I lost my virginity at 17 and the 8 years since then have been a sexual rollercoaster and vanilla me from 7 years ago would be mind blown!

So here’s how it started: as a young guy I was always very very horny and I loved women with blonde hair and big boobs. Before I had sex I spent a lot of time sexting, I seemed to find sending pictures hot and I’ll admit at the time I was known for ‘unsolicited pics’.

Eventually at a party one day I finally hooked up with a girl that I really fancied and we had fun vanilla sex, pretty standard but amazing. Once I started I didn’t stop, from this point I really let myself go and got around a bit.

A few years later I met someone older at a bar and we ended up going back to her hotel, she was really Hot but I couldn’t get hard at all, she tried for a little bit but eventually gave up and we left. In my head I knew she was going to find someone else but instead of being upset I was turned on. For the first time I felt so aroused and I wasn’t sure why.

A few months later I was introduced to Reddit and I began looking for sexual partners, I still loved sexting so I was looking for that. I then became aware of all the subs/kinks/fetishes available on here and my mind was open. I then decided I may actually be a sub.

I started off connecting with a few ‘femdom’ redditors and tried some new stuff, teaching me ways to ruin my orgasm and hurt my balls at their instruction. This led to further erectile dysfunction problems and it meant that my cock always looked ‘small’. I went through a phase of sexting again, showing off my small one where possible, I was so nervous but showing it to people I knew gave me a rush.

After this I discovered hotwifing, cuckolding and chastity. Initially I wasn’t sure but the subs made me so aroused. I was sexting with a few and had a few meets planed and it was hot but I wasn’t full fillied. I then asked a long term FWB if she wanted to cuck me and after a bit of uncertainty she said yes. This went on for a few months and I loved it (Story for another time).

Since then I have taken part in threesomes, gangbangs and even having my balls kicked. I still enjoy all the phases I have been through however I now see clearly what turns me on. It’s prioritising women’s needs over mine and sometimes at the detriment of my own pleasure. I’m Now an occasional sub but in every scenario the women is prioritised and that is what turns me on - no matter what!

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