I've been in a relationship for nearly 18 months now, and we had never had sex. We are both 27 and always enjoyed each other's company instead of getting too physical. But since a few months back,, I had thoughts of enjoying watching her have sex with someone instead of action being physical with her.

I told her my feelings, and she too was upfront with me saying she just thought I was not physically that attracted to her. And then we found some decent looking guy from a local online group, and invited him over. And when they were hitting it off and just when they started having intercourse, I just exploded. The whole thought of the girl that I was attached to emotionally, and another guy entered her before I did after the attachment, brought up some intense feelings within me.

She said she enjoyed a lot, and so did I. Nothing seems to have gotten between us, even weeks later.