A few years ago my wife (42) and I (38) had a chat that forever changed our sex life. After a decade together at the time we had fallen into the trap or everything planned, turning vanilla-ish etc.

That night we created a safe space and shared our thoughts, fantasies, desires - which has opened the door for us to add a lot more spice than your local cooking isle at the supermarket to our love life. One thing I have learned is I love my wives face, the way her body moves when she is getting fucked or orgasming.

Whether it is me, her toys driving in and out of her, or others I like to see her eyes rolling in her head, her mouth and lips changing as she gets lost in the moment and the way her whole body shakes when she begins to explode.

Over the time we have had others come and join us, I have enjoyed watching as they have fucked her, eaten her even joining in with some - it doesn't really matter what is happening as long as she is being pleased and her body reacts the way it does, then I enjoy watching and it's a turn on.