So this happened two years ago, when I first moved to the country I am currently living in (in Europe). Growing up, I was always curious about different types of sex but I was raised in a religious and conservative household. I’m also from an Asian background so my parents was super disapproving about casual sex etc. So much so, that I only had my first proper boyfriend at age 21 and lost my virginity to him around that age too.

Fast forward to early 2022 - I had just moved countries (aka away from my parents and their expectations) and my ex and I had broke up a year prior. While I was sad for a bit, it had been a year so I was lonely, horny, and also craving some excitement since it was a new environment.

The first week I arrived I downloaded tinder and got a few matches. I matched with this guy (28M) and quickly organised a date. Now, going into this it was pretty clear he only wanted casual. He mentioned picking me up in a car from the apt and going to McDonald’s for a milkshake (lol) so it was clear I was not being wined and dined. The past me would have avoided him completely but the new version was somewhat in a “fuck it” mentality and mainly I just wanted to get laid since it had been a while - plus the only other person I had sex with then was my ex, and I wanted to change that.

He picked me up that evening and he was even cuter in person which I was happy about. After driving around and chatting for 1 hour we started making out in the car. He was wearing sweatpants which allowed for easy access for me to start stroking his dick and eventually giving him a blowjob. He was average in length but his dick was nice and thick, plus he tasted pretty good so I was happy to go down on him. I was wearing a tight black bodycon dress which he pulled up around my hips so he could finger me. I get pretty wet easily which I could tell excited him and he started bucking against my mouth. At this point I was super horny plus there was this added excitement and thrill of him being a complete stranger. It was almost like I was scrubbing away that good girl image of my past and taking ownership of my sexuality.

At that point we were both suuuper horny so he mentioned driving to a secluded area, and I agreed. We pulled up to a gravel driveway off the main road and he got out of his side, opened the passenger door and pulled my hips sideways so my legs were out the door. Maybe it was the fact that I got used to condomless sex with my ex or the fact that it was even more of a thrill, but I pulled his dick in to meet my slit and started grinding on him. He asked me if I was on birth control, I said no. Then he said he could just pull out, which I agreed. Then he thrusted in (and like I mentioned before, he was pretty thick) so it was pretty intense at first but we soon got a steady rhythm.

The whole time he was losing it, grunting and moaning, telling me that my pussy felt really tight (well, I had only had sex with one other guy before so was still inexperienced ish), and wet, and felt super good, and that he could imagine how my ex wanted to fuck me 4x a night (I told him this story prior). He probably only lasted for 3-4 mins before he quickly pulled out and sprayed cum onto the pavement and a bit on my legs. At this point it was drizzling outside as well and the cool air was quite refreshing.

Afterwards he drove me back to my apt, wished me goodnight, and we never spoke or went on another date again. But I still think back on that night fondly and it always gives me a thrill inside. To this day, I thank my lucky stars i didn’t get knocked up or an STD/STI lol. But yeah. Safe to say, that was the beginning of my sexual adventures abroad!