So we’ve been together for more than 5yrs now and we’re going to embark the for life journey soon. We are very open about our sexual fantasies etc and talk openly about sex etc. We even tried a 3some ones with a buddy but ended shortly after she took him for a couple of minutes she couldn’t go through with it. I am kinky and have lot of fetish like I wanna see her with a BBC, BWC , DP etc but she doesn’t wanna live it out. So far we sometimes talk about it and I send her some nice steamy sex vids or gifs but I want to get her to act it out. She also wants to try a 3some with a chick.
How do I get her to act upon these fetishes ? Try them out.