Being very shy and growing up in a sheltered midwestern home, I didn’t know what I was getting myself into attending a mastic SEC school for undergrad.

Most girls did Greek like, and I too was interested in it, but coming from a lower middle-class family, bills quickly got the best of me.

As for the reason you’re all here - my freshman year roommate and bff, Emmy, was and still is a little ball of energy. While I was shy and cautious, Emmy was loud and excited. Well, Midway through our freshman year I fell behind on sorority dues and told Emmy I wasn’t gonna do Greek like sophomore year. That same evening, after killing a box of Francis together - Emmy told me she’d cover a months’ worth of dues if I let her go down on me. I thought she was full of it, and told her if she did, then sure.

Well, Emmy venmo’d me a month’s worth of dues right then and there … then went down on me in our room. Being my first experience with a girl, I kinda just laid there like a fish, drunk and in awe that this was happening, but I warmed up to it.

Later that week she told me if I was willing to stay in Greek life and room with her, she’d keep paying my dues - but she’d be able to play with me when we were in our room, alone.

I didn’t jump right into the agreement. Instead, the next weekend we made out and Emmy went down on me again. Later than week, we did it again, from there - we played a lot, and eventually Emmy paid my sorority dues and when in our room, I was essentially free use for Emmy.

Yes, after some time I began going down on Emmy, and before I knew it we were having sex almost every day.

Some friends found out along the way, and a boyfriend broke up with Emmy our junior year when we walked in on her eating me out - but it stayed relatively low key.

We hooked up a couple times after graduation, and keep in touch here and there to this day. We even stood up at each others weddings.

But yeah, i had a really “hands on” roommate in college 🙃🙈