Free use is a fun fantasy for a lot of people. How does it work when it’s your everyday life? I thought I’d (29F) share.

When people try it, it’s usually kept to a weekend, a week, a vacation, or a specific piece of clothing or jewelry that signifies it’s “on.” It’s probably wild and crazy and makes for a good story here. It definitely mellows out after a month or two though. That doesn’t make it less fun, in my opinion. It’s feels like it removes the pretense and bartering involved in men getting sex from their partners.

If you stick with free use (consent assumed until safeword is used) long term, it might not look so much like the porn you see. At least in my experience, it’s a ton of oral sex. Quick and hard face fucks in the hallway during nap time or long and slow oral after bedtime while he watches something. Ball sucking, cock worship, face fucking.

The other most common occurrence is the nighttime use. I go to bed first, take a sleeping pill, and usually wake to feel him entering me or thrusting to his completion inside me. I’m not expected to participate - he’s just relaxing before bed. Or I might not remember it at all. I wake up with a creampie, some weeks, every single morning. It is part of his routine to pull my hips to him and use me as a masturbator and a place to leave his cum. He doesn’t even clean me up after.

When free use is full time and for a long time, yes, there are the exciting and fun fucks but I’m really just replacing my man’s jerking off routine with my body. Many men wouldn’t want all the hubbub of sex that many times a day EVERY DAY for years, but they do want to get off and feel good - free use means he doesn’t have to do it alone. You develop habits of entitlement to a warm wet hole when you want it and how you want it.

**assume I’m not interested in you, just sharing my perspective, thanks!