M29 Upcoming Sauna Trip

Not really a confession but more of an upcoming confession

I am married to an amazing wife. We have just hit our 1 year anniversary but have been together for 9 years. We have been trying to spice up our sex life not because we are bored but because we want to try new things and experience everything together.

I came out as Bisexual when I was in high school and had a couple of flings before meeting my wife. She knows I am Bi and that I had been with several men before.

The other night after we had had sex, we started talking more about the things that we wanted to do. I had joked about going to a sex club in another city together and she said that she would be keen to go next time we were in that city but was curious as to what it was like

I revealed that I had been to a sauna in my hometown a few times but it was only for gay men. She asked if I had thought about it since we have been together and I said yes but I would never go because I would never cheat.

She then agreed that, as long as I have her consent and it is planned before hand, that I would be able to go to a sauna every so often because it was a part of who I am and I shouldn’t have to suppress it

So we are going to my hometown this weekend and I am going to the sauna one night I am there while she goes to dinner with her friend

I am so excited and constantly turned on. I can’t stop thinking about it

If people are interested, I’ll post about how it goes