I’m in my mid 30s I’ve been with my wife now going on 9 years. We recently got married this summer. I’ve spent about of a third of my life being a small town white guy. My wife grew up a city girl. Eventually for more work opportunities we moved to the city. I work in a predominantly Arabic area. Which honestly I love, the people are nice and the food is amazing. When I was in college I always had a thing for black and brown women but it wasn’t until I started my current job that I really found a new appreciation for this particular culture.

I mean this whole heartedly. These Lebanese and Arabic women are gods gift to this world. Truly natural beautiful kind women. Some are sharks but who isn’t these days. Anyway I have gotten to know a few very well. One has started bringing me meals for lunch and last week texted me just wishing me a good day or trying low key convos. Which this woman is very sweet it might not mean anything but the other one who is very vocal. Eye fucks me daily, comments my physical appearance. Tells me how my wife should treat me or appreciate me. Last week she said I was handsome. It was different at first I wasn’t used to it but I decided to go with the flow and accept it, it’s flattering.

Well one of my close Lebanese friends heard those two Arabic ladies talking in Arabic it was out loud in the office because I didn’t know what was being said. And she told me it wasn’t good. I mean it was flattering but because I was married watch out. The one who had two kids and was single wanted another from me. And the other lady wanted me to cheat with her. They were basically figuring out how to make it happen without getting in trouble. So as of now work is a little awkward, I won’t lie I’m not a saint that’s hot as hell they are attractive. But I’m not screwing up my life for a couple hours of fun.