M26 & F27 I (M) want to spice things up and my SO says she is open for anything. My biggest problem is my confidence. I have some fun ideas but when it comes to it I usually dont follow through.

Im having a hard time staying hard enough, after a little moment im usually good for round 2 but its a continuous struggle. Getting horny has been hard for me as well. I dont seem to have the same lust as before covid.

I find talking about sex difficult, though over text it seems to be a bit easier. I have to be horny for it to do it properly which like i said has taken a dip as well.

We do own sextoys and we are very open to trying things, but we are also both inexperienced. She has a higher sex drive and confidence than I do. Which is a big help but I'm not where I want to be. We do talk about it. But her confidence is also taking a small hit whenever I don't cum, I tell her that she just have to wait for the next round but it seems like we have to set the mood all over again after I need to tap out because I simply dont have the energy to continue

The other day we talked eachother up all day, watched a program on sexrooms on netflix and filled out a bdsm form to know what the other likes and is open for. Long story short she likes to be tied up. I had an idea for a while already and decided to whisper in her ear what i would like to do to her. "Im going to blindfold you, tie you arms behind your back and make all your whole body mine. We recently bought a new vibrator and we bought a quirky starter set which had a buttplug. I planned on using both at the same time and have her suck my dick while the 2 toys would fill up her other holes. Unfortunately the toys had other ideas and the batteries died. This didnt detere me on making her cum while she was blindfolded and restrained. Her other vibrator still had a little bit of juice left so i decided to use that instead. I positioned the pillows in a way that her back would be supported as she sat slightly inclined on the bed. I spread her legs and her arms were still restrained behind her back and her eyes still covered by a blindfold. I ate her our till she squirmed and used the vibrator on her clit and pussy till she came. It was so hot to see her helplessly enjoying herself and its definitely something I want to do more often. After all the toys batteries died we had sex in various positions but my body didnt have any energy left after a while so we called it quits.