So not long ago I was spending my first term of Uni on a study abroad program. Seeing as I was in a new city and being inexperienced and a virgin (still am unfortunately) I tried to meet people but wasn’t super committed to it. In my free time I came on Reddit and started chatting with people in the area. One of the people I found was this woman who seemed wonderful and had offered to be a dom and indulge my submissive side. It started out with her just asking me some questions about sexuality and what I did and didn’t like. I admitted that I wanted to try being submissive and have been fantasizing about letting a women dominate me or letting a man fuck my ass. Overall just admitting I kind of want to be used. I want my first time to be with a women or maybe a couple but after I want to be fair game. We spoke some more with her slightly degrading me and having me send her nudes. We had been talking for a while (a few days) and I had begun feeling comfortable. I had told her about my incest kinks and some of my darker fantasies. She asked at one point for a nude with my face and without thinking I sent it. She replied positively and asked if we could go to a different app for convenience. I said sure and when she asked for my phone number I gave it. She then sent an image of a calling list with names of people I knew and people I didn’t and threatened to send my nudes and conversations to my family if I didn’t pay her. I’m stubborn and would rather be embarrassed than pay so I blocked her and reported. I also came clean with my parents in case they actually got them. As far as I know they didn’t. My confession but is I’ve never spoken about how turned on I get by the thought of my family or people I’m close with seeing me nude and knowing I’m not the innocent kid they’re used to. It’s also love the fact that it all came out in the form of blackmail. Never have I felt so helpless yet every time I think back on it I can’t help but wonder how people would react if someone did expose me. Maybe I’m more submissive than I thought. Hm. Sorry for the long ramble but thanks if you made it this far.