My husband felt like we were drifting apart, he either had no idea what I was doing or was denying it. He set up a date night for us, I was supposed to meet up with Nelson that night. I told Nelson and he seemed jealous but accepted the situation. I went out with my husband, had a nice dinner, rode on the back of his motorcycle to Redwood Road in Castro Valley so we can look at the bay while the sun was going down. He tried to make it romantic. We got home and the babysitter was quick to leave. I put my daughter down for bed and we went down stairs and watched a movie. I don't remember what we were watching but I put my hand in his lap and rubbed him till he got hard. Got down on the floor and put a pillow under my knees as the tile hurt me. unzipped his pants and sucked on him for a real short time, he wanted more.

I stood up and pulled my pants and thong off, while he sat on the couch, he slouched to put his but on the edge of the couch while I straddled him. I slid him in and grinded and bounced on him till he came inside me, I don't remember if I came, but I don't think I did. My husband was competing for me at the time, he just didn't know that he was. and he was losing. He said that we'd never done that before like that on the couch and he wanted to know where I got it from. I told him it was from a TV show. There's something about having sex with someone in different ways than you do with your spouse. Nelson and I had sex like that in his car all the time, I had kind of a muscle memory for it and I knew what I was doing. He was suspicious but it went on for more than a year after that.

Nelson had been texting me throughout my date with my husband. I didn't respond very much as I was on the motorcycle or involved with my husband. He was super jealous. I loved that it did that to him. I told him about the night and he wanted to know everything. So I told him. He said he would set up a night for us to enjoy each others company rather than just animalistic sex. We set up a night. He got a decent hotel with a balcony. The bed had a heavy wooden frame and headboard, there was a recliner couch and a table and chair. It also had a jacuzzi tub. Looked like he spent some money on it. I asked him if he had eaten and he said he hadn't. We both decided to walk to the Chipotle together. I didn't allow him to pay for my food. My husbands biker friend was at the restaurant with his family. I didn't know him or recognize him, but he knew me. He watched me hanging on Nelson and us holding each other. He saw us kiss a few times while we were there and generally flirting. He was texting my husband about all this in real time. My husband said that he knew I was out with friends and not to worry about it, despite the things his friend told him we were doing. I guess he was in denial.