We have been married for 37 years now and dated for 8 years prior. I have always had more of a sex drive than her. When becoming empty nesters, we were able to go out more for fun nights. I noticed when she had a few drinks, she would get flirty with guys and also some women. I talked to her about having a threesome and she says no way! She has no interest in doing that. I offered MMF for her pleaser, I’m not bi. She still says no when we talk about this at home. When out having fun with her getting tipsy, she likes it when guys hit on her. She has kissed some guys, grabbed their crotch. One time we went back to our hotel and she was sexting a guy while I was eating her! After 20 minutes or so she said, I could go for a threesome tonight! I said give him our room number, but the guy chickened out. So lady’s, is she laying about not wanting to be with other guys? Is me being involved holding her back? Would she rather have another man alone? Any advice on how to ask her about this? We don’t get out as much lately because she is not wanting to very much anymore. Bot just a few weeks ago we went out for a nightcap when we were out of town. She was a little stressed so she had two strong drinks and started talking to a guy sitting next to her. He was about our age, she normally sticks to our age range. She started flirting again after two more drinks and leaned into his chest for a selfie and gave him a kiss. The guy started looking very nervous and left. We had a couple blocks walk back to the hotel and she lifted her dress saying, look at my pussy, to people driving by. Then she asked why that guy would come back to the hotel with us. In the morning she didn’t remember doing that. So if she wants it when drunk, doesn’t that mean she really does want to have a MMF fun? I’m so confused and sexually frustrated! THX