After having regularly sex over the last couple of years, which means at least once or twice per day, we listened to a sex podcast about slow sex.

Especially the touching part is very interesting. Also not to focus really on penetration but on touching and feeling we think is great.

One point is also not to focus on your orgasm... especially for men. They also suggested that the men should try not to orgasm for several days... I think hubby never did that... but we want to try. I think the most was 2 days without ejacuation... and this since he was a young teen...

So we started today... but he still got hard as fuck... and he also fucked me slowly... so no focus on his or my orgasm... just deep fucking and lots of touching... and also telling us about our fantasies...

We now go sleep.. he did not orgasm nor I did.. but the connection felt really good...

I eould be surprised if he would not wake me up un the middle of the night and fuck me again... if he does bot orgasm he want to fuck me until he orgasms... we will see what happens...

He promised that he will fuck me at least at 5:30am... before we get up...

Does others have experience with slow sex?