I (20m) have been anonymously sexting with a girl (19/20f) for the last week. This has been the most nasty, freaky, hardcore shit I have ever done. I’ve been learning how to be more dominant for the last few years, all with a partner who recently decided to separate with me. But when this girl found her way into my inbox and said she was really submissive, I was ready to assume the position.

I haven’t had sex in ages and I’m honestly very desperate. I know she goes to my relatively small college, and a few activities she involved in. But I have no clue what she looks like, who she is, or anything else. But I’ve been pushing to link up because she’s talking mad freaky shit in my dms. She was starting to open up to the idea when she admit to having a boyfriend.

I asked if this was a situation where he knew and was okay with it orrrr… and she revealed that he’s not interested in her sexually, and that our conversation has been the closest thing to sex she’s had in over a year. She seems super sweet and our energy matches so well, and I’m in need of a pick me up after my breakup. But her boyfriend also goes to the same school, so this is a very dangerous game. But at the same time, I haven’t don’t anything this risky in a long time…

I’ve got to go to an exam now, and the way our schedules fall, this looks like our last opportunity to make this work. I want to help this girl out, but I don’t want to get caught up in some drama. But at the same time, a guy has needs too. Both me and him. She said he’s not getting it anywhere else, but after a whole year of nothing, I really doubt that…

I’ve got approximately two hours until I can get back to Reddit or responding to her. So, what the hell should I do?