After years of being single or in open relationships I got together with my current GF six months ago. We have a great emotional connection and she's beautiful, tall, blone and talented (kinda like a younger, less angular blake lively) But she's also very conservative and she insisted we go monogamous early on.

The problem is I have a much higher sex drive than she does and I'm also much, much kinkier than she is. By an order of magnitude. I'm into ropeplay, public sex, D/S and orgies (if I'm in the mood). She thinks handcuffs are for policemen. The sex is straight missionary, under the covers, lights off, and once a week.

Soo you'll see why I find it a bit of a struggle.

In the circumstances, I've been really struggling to finish things with a FWB of mine who I have an amazing sexual connection with, is as kinky as me, and wants sex just as much as I do. We've known each other for years and fucked periodically for most of that time, we know how to get each other off, and we just have a really chill time together even though we don't have any romantic chemistry. She's the total opposite of my gf too, in personality and looks; my FWB is short, has glasses and a pixie cut of dark hair, wears baggy clothes usually (they're a bit of a stoner) but with a cute face, a thicc ass, and beautiful round tits. She’s also Indian which…I have a Thing for due to a previous gf lol (I’m white).

She is, like I said, as kinky as me: she loves domming me, actively prefers to fuck where other people can see/hear us, and is borderline obsessed with my dick (for sex, as a stress toy, to eat food off...like I said, kinky).

I've been spending a lot of time at hers and I always try and resist, but somehow the night almost always ends with me taking out my sexual frustration on my FWB . My one saving grace is that my gf thinks my FWB is a lesbian (I think bc of the pixie cut...like i said, kinda conservative.)

I've been keeping it together, but it's been getting harder and harder as my GF gets more and more serious about the relationship, and there are more and more close calls (the closest yet was during my graduation, when me and FWB were in the same year, and smoked a celebratory joint before the ceremony, which led to uh, celebratory sex in the college bathrooms. Wearing our gowns. We both arrived late, a bit, uh, ruffled, and there were a couple stains on my gowns I had to blame on the hire service).

I love my GF and want to stay with her, but she doesn't sexually satisfy me, so I think I'm doomed to keep cheating for the time being. And to be honest, the fact that I'm cheating on my gf is starting to be a real turn-on for us both. That she's at home none the wiser whilst I'm balls-deep in someone she doesn't register as a threat, or that the friend she's always rude to at parties is bouncing on her beloved BF's thick cock multiple times a week, or that I'm in my FWB's eager pussy more times in a single week than my GF's in a month...the more I do it, the hotter it gets.

Is anyone else in a similar situation? Would you like to be? Did it work? Did you ever get caught? Chats open 🙂